What do you want to surround yourself with?
I wanted to write something for you about this, so I Googled “surround yourself with” and here is the advice that came up on the first page.
- “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” … Oprah Winfrey
- Surround Yourself with the Positive …
- Surround Yourself with Greatness … Three-time Pro Bowl tight end Chad Lewis
- Surround yourself with like-minded individuals. Surround yourself with people who make you feel good about …
- Surround Yourself with Passionate People …
- “Always surround yourself with people who are better than you. If you’re hanging around bad people, they’re going to start bringing you down . . . But, if you surround yourself with good people, they’re going to be pulling you up.” … Donny Osmond
I agree. I NEED to surround myself with the best, the extraordinary, so that I can become my best. That’s easier said than done. It takes work to attract and keep the best in your life, especially if you are looking for people who are better than you are. I have spent the last five years of my life with that single-minded goal, to attract extraordinary people to the Village. Our list of permanent residents is still small, but it includes people of extraordinary talents, skills, accomplishments, experiences and character traits. To name a few, these highly accomplished people, all with post-graduate degrees in their field and stellar life accomplishments, include among their skills: published philosopher and writer, chemist, plant geneticist, musician, Sr. business executive, successful entrepreneur, web developer, teacher, world travelers, electronics/communications expert, linguists, etc. If you include those who have purchased land but have not yet built and moved in, the list becomes too long. Overlaid on these skills are values of hard work, positive thinking, humility, mental toughness, creativity, generosity, mutual caring, independence, self-sufficiency and a strong desire to be part of a cohesive, sharing community.
Have you noticed that on my website, the request for information page includes a text box that asks an unusual question? “Tell us a little about why you are interested in living in the Village on Sewanee Creek and what you would bring to the community as a neighbor.” Do you know of ANY other developments where land is offered for sale, but applicants are asked to justify their contribution in terms other than dollars?
I don’t refer to myself as a “developer”. My primary focus is building this community, so my business card says simply “founder”. Unlike developers whose work focuses exclusively on subdividing, meeting government codes and selling, I actually live here and have different, vested, personal interests. So I spend the bulk of my time blogging to attract extraordinary people, then interviewing and observing to understand whether they would be happy and contribute here. When a person buys land in the Village, only a little of the value they are getting is in dirt, trees, creeks and a nice view. They are buying years of my single-minded labor to assemble a community, a circle of extraordinary people. For some, it is hard to recognize tangible dollar value in that. Those who think the above quotes are only nice platitudes won’t join us in the Village. They are unlikely to commit to the lifestyle we aspire to or even discover my website with its carefully crafted key search words. And that is good. We aren’t looking for average people who have money but don’t get it.
For those who strive to surround themselves with greatness, with people who will lift you higher, people who are like-minded, passionate, intelligent, creative and so on, to these the beautiful land is a nice incidental.
That Village residents understand and value this was recently demonstrated to me by one of them. We were on an outing together to Nashville to see my favorite play, Les Miserable. As we drove together I took the opportunity to discuss some community business. I mentioned that property values in the Village have stayed significantly higher than any nearby as indicated by recent sales. I sought their views on changes to the covenants because I want to make them as minimally restrictive as I can while maintaining the beauty, tranquility and productivity of the Village. A Villager with two young children dismissed higher property values. “Resale value is irrelevant to me”, he said. “I plan to live here the rest of my life.” Then he added, “I just want to be sure you will continue to be selective with the quality of my new neighbors.” BTW, this young, extraordinary man is our post-graduate philosopher/writer/entrepreneur and I would say he gets it.